Shenie Wants to Know: "Yes or No?"

Shenie seeks clarification of the matter. While the Tarot gave her some insight into the situation, telling her to work through this, Shenie would like a clear-cut Yes or No answer.

Shenie asks: Is he in my future? Does this have long-term possibilities?


Shenie, you wanted a clear cut answer, and the Tarot has provided exactly that! Although we need only one card (the future) to tell us the answer, I'll share what all three revealed.

In the past, the Two of Swords indicates the deception that took place; he pulled the wool over your eyes. However, he was not solely to blame. You closed your eyes to the facts in front of you. The hints were there all along, you refused to see them until this "make-it-or-break-it" trip took place. You can't blame him exclusively; you permitted this behavior by closing your eyes to the signs.

The Eight of Wands in the present symbolizes your thoughts rushing--all these questions! Also, a decision will be made quickly--it's time to act. Your reconciliation will be rapid and passionate (both in the negative and positive connotation of the word). Additional travel could be on the horizon, too.

The Outcome card, the Two of Cups, says that yes, a meaningful compromise will be reached, a commitment made. Compromise and cooperation are the keys here. There must be give and take on both sides. You'll find common ground and emotional equilibrium. Let go of your pride during the holidays and let the future take its course.

Once again, Shenie, all the cards are Minor Arcana. The future lies in your hands--it's your decision. This is NOT the standard disclaimer. When only Minor Arcana appear, it means the Universe has stepped back to allow you to do what you feel is best. The Universe won't hit you with a whammy; whatever happens is in your control. He is committed if you will forgive him and move forward.

Happy Holidays, Shenie, and good luck!